Jesus Saved My Ass

By Joey Svendsen

If this title was written on a scroll back in Jesus’ day, the reader may read further to find how Jesus rescued a donkey. In the 21st century, many of you will read further because you are a little offended by the title.

To be honest, I understand.  I used to be just like you.  I’ll get to that later.

I want to talk about “cuss words” and the unwarranted hype that they accrue.  “Christians shouldn’t cuss” is a pretty accepted belief, but the question I want to ask here is, “what (the hell, the heck, in the world) is cussing?” I frankly do not believe in an inherently evil use of words, outside of the heart in which they are spoken from.  One of the ten commandments forbids taking the Lord’s name in vain. One can only discern whether a person has spoken God’s name in vain by having a feel for the person’s heart-motivation behind what was said. Here’s an example of how some one’s heart can determine whether or not one’s words are good:

1.  Responding with fondness the news of a best friend getting a sweet new ride for Christmas:  “I hate you.”  (not a sin)

2.  A friend made you feel really bad, so in order to retaliate and make him/her feel bad as well, you say, “I hate you.” (sin).

 

The following list represents additional reasoning as to why there is no evil in mere words alone:

Reason 1:  Synonyms’ fallacious inequality

Example: “Screw that” is relatively acceptable in Christian circles, while “f_** that” is not.

Fallacy corrected: They mean exactly the same thing. Thus, either the former is a sin to say or the latter is not a sin to say.

Reason 2:  Evolution of cuss words

Example: “That sucks” used to be adamantly scorned by parents in my generation.  Now, I’m sure that most of these same parents have said in recent years that our economy sucks.

Fallacy corrected:  Given this trend, does that mean that formerly sinful words can evolve into harmless words?  Nope.  All forms of sin have always been sin, and always will be sin. Sin is always committed against an eternal God that is the same today, yesterday and forever (Hebrews 13:8).

Reason 3:  Jesus

Example: Jesus says that people’s self-righteousness is like “filthy menstrual rags.” He used this terminology because it was the most accurate description of what self-righteousness really is. I’m sure this phrase, back in the day, would have been just as offensive as “your self-righteousness is like sh_t” would be to folks in church today.

Fallacy corrected: Neither one of these expressions are sins in themselves.

 

So, what’s my point?  Do I want to create a Christian culture of cussing?  Absolutely not; it’s actually pretty dumb when Christians flaunt cussing for the sake of sounding cool, hip and edgy. This topic is quite important to me because up Until about the age of 23, when I encountered a person that professed to be a Christian, in the event that I heard him “cuss,” I concluded that at best he had backslidden and at worst, he was possessed by legions of demons. Even writing this, I can’t believe I used to think this way.

First of all, some one’s salvation is not based on ANY work other than Jesus’ work on the cross and Joey Svendsen doesn’t have jurisdiction in determining what words in the English language are evil.

Secondly, it is fairly common for Christians to try and refrain from using words that even borderlines on cussing. Unfortunately, they additionally create a whole Christian language on their own. Totally aborting any words that mainstream culture is accustomed to and simultaneously creating a Christian “replacement language” greatly conflicts with Jesus’ efforts to relate to, befriend, and find common ground with unbelievers.

Thirdly, it actually burdens me when I hear folks pray that God would “clean up their language” and I hope they recognize the more important issues in their lives that God would like to clean up. While I do not want to dismiss anything that God would convict any one from, in my humble opinion, my guess is that He gets much more “heartburn” over us using discouraging words and making a regular habit of gossiping.

Outside of gossip, discouragement, lying etc, I do indeed feel that there are words in which the mere use of them can be considered evil almost all the time. For example, the vulgar terminology for female anatomy is rarely acceptable in any contexts and for good reason. That’s because almost 100% of the times these words are used, it’s with a disrespectful, demeaning slant towards females. This is just plain ‘ol disrespectful and wrong, as is joking to a sweet old lady that her collards taste like sh**.

One may ask, what if there is a word that I feel is ok, but others do not? I would respond by referencing scripture that forbids acting in a way that is a stumbling block to others. These things that Paul says we must refrain from are not sins in themselves but rather sinful because they produce in others that we are around, the temptation to sin. It’s clear then that we can act a certain way in front of some people that we should not act in front of others.  Some call this hypocrisy and living a double-standard.  I call it being biblical (1 Corinthians 8).  I certainly talk differently around my wife and close friends (people that know my heart and I know there’s) than I would talk in front of strangers or around folks that would potentially be offended.

With this being said, I have actually found that using some words that most Christians deem as foul can be the same words when used in front of unbelievers that have capacity to destroy walls and lesson feelings of apprehension that are all too common for unbelievers when they talk to us “Jesus freaks.”

My heart for this topic may seem unimportant and trivial to some, but I happen to believe this issue to be important and potentially critical for effective Christian evangelism.  I don’t necessarily need you to agree with me, but I do think it would be helpful for you to ask the following questions:

    1. Do you think some one is less moral and/or less spiritually mature if they say the word “Damn?”  What about “darn?”
    2. Are you more concerned about people’s language being clean/polished around you than you are about their hearts being completely yielded to Jesus?
    3. Would you stop conversing with a “cusser” or even some one that says yucky words in close proximity with our savior’s name, even when the potential is there for you to influence the depths of his or her heart with the love of Jesus?
    4. Does “unwholesome talk” (Ephesians 4:29) mean the use of specific words or does it mean dialogue that has the potential of destroying rather than building up?
    5. When Paul says he will be all things to all people, for the sake of the gospel (1 Corinthians 9:19-22), I wonder if that includes saying a word that is unacceptable in most Christian circles in order to find common group with an unbeliever? 

What do you think?

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